Grammy star Chappell Roan happily challenges the orgasm gap: Cunniligus is easier

Posted on April 1, 2025

By Jennifer Lyon Bell

Hot, famous queer musician Chappell Roan finds it easy to spend time between her woman's legs: Going down on women is actually a cinch!

 

As reported by writer Bernardo Sim in this week’s issue of Out magazine,  queer superstar Chappell Roan appeared on the Call Her Daddy podcast with Alex Cooper and tutored the host, rejoicing that “eating a girl out” is much easier than performing oral sex on a guy.

 

Chappell Roan: Real talk on “eating women out”

 

Chappell explains:

 

“When I started hooking up with women, I realized how easy it is, actually. I realized how easy it is to eat a girl out, and how this whole time I thought it was, ‘Oh, your neck hurts so bad.’ I thought, ‘Oh… it’s, like, hard. My jaw hurts.’ You know what’s hard? Sucking dick,” Roan declared. “Eating a girl out? You can lay down!”

“…But when I started hooking up with women, I was like, ‘Fuck you guys.’ This is enjoyable, first of all. Second of all: [It’s] way, way easier. It’s actually fucking crazy. So what, you can’t find the clit? Work harder. It may take 10 minutes longer. That’s fine.”

 

What is “the orgasm gap”?

 

I was excited enough to talk about this that I put it in its own blog post. 🙂

 

 

Is this the first Chappell has mentioned this?

 

Nope! She’s a longterm advocate for female pleasure  — even at the expense of teasing men for not trying hard enough on womens’ behalves.

 

I mean, if we were listening at all to the lyrics of Chappell’s 2024 hit track “Femininomenon,” it was kind of obvious how she felt!

 

Same old story, time againGot so close but then you lost itShould’ve listened to your friends‘Bout his girlfriend back in BostonYou sent him pictures and playlists and phone sexHe disappeared from the second that you said“Let’s get coffee, let’s meet up”I’m so sick of online loveAnd I don’t understand, why can’t any man
Hit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a femHit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a-, um, can you play a song with a fucking beat?
hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon(Hit it like) hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon
So let’s say it’s working outYou pretend to love his motherLying to your friends aboutHow he’s such a goddamn good loverStuck in the suburbs, you’re folding his laundryGot what you wanted, so stop feeling sorryCrying at the nail salonI’m so sick of online loveAnd I don’t understand, why can’t any man
Hit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a femHit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a-, dude, can you play a song with a fucking beat?
hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon(Hit it like) hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon
Ladies, you know what I meanAnd you know what you need and so does heBut does it happen? (No)But does it happen? (No)Well, what we really need is a femininomenon (a what?)A femininomenon
hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon(Hit it like) hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and onDid you hear me? Play the fucking beat
hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon(Hit it like) hit it like rom-pom-pom-pom(Get it hot) get it hot like Papa John(Make a bitch) make a bitch go on and on(It’s a fem) it’s a femininomenon
Hit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a fem (it’s a femininomenon)Hit it likeGet it hotMake a bitchIt’s a fem (fem, fem, fem)
Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Daniel Nigro / Kayleigh Rose Amstutz
Femininomenon lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
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